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TLC For Couples
We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are.
Anais Nin
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CREATE - AND SUSTAIN - A HEALTHY, VIBRANT, MUTUALLY- RESPECTFUL RELATIONSHIP
At any point in your relationship - from dating exclusively to decades of marriage.
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| When you're young and in love, it feels like nothing will ever go wrong with your relationship – even those little arguments seem easy to get past or overlook.
But...
If that starts to change –
the arguments are becoming more frequent, lasting longer, or both of you aren’t recovering from them as quickly as you used to –
early on in this downward spiral is the time to do something about it,
not once things have gotten so bad that you spend more time unhappy than happy with each other.
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When you’ve been in a relationship or marriage over many years, it can become stale – the romance can be lost and both of you chalk it up to what’s to be expected after so many years.
Or, you’ve moved now into a new life stage – such as retirement, or now that the kids are gone – and you weren’t prepared for the difficulties being created by all this time together without the other things that filled your lives (work/kids)….. It’s not as easy to handle as you thought it would be, and, actually, starting to cause some problems …
Wouldn't it be quite wonderful to get that romance back, or to enjoy each other again in a new way - bring your relationship to a whole new level?
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| These are challenges faced by so many couples – and they can be remedied!
Because Coaching is objective and direct, the two of you can quickly discover what each of you is doing to keep the relationship stuck in neutral or that downward spiral, what each of you can do to make things so much better, and create a clear and doable plan for making things right again.
Here are some of our programs that help couples “Be Their Best…”
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"Be the Best" Programs
for couples of all ages!
Stop All the Fighting Effectively (SAFE)!
Couples disagree for many different reasons - from differing values and expectations to poor communication skills.
The key is knowing clearly what lies at the foundation of your arguments (and usually it is the same one or two things that fuel each fire...), knowing that not one but both of you have a part in the problem, then creating doable steps each of you can take immediately to make things better.
SAFE Coaching will get you there - quickly.
Getting Your Mojo Back
You had it once, you can have it again! Don't believe the myth that after so many years you just have to learn to live without it because it's natural for it to be lost. Romance may change its look over time, but not its capacity to be rekindled!
And romance is not always, or just, bouquets of roses, all-night passionate sex, or that diamond necklace they tell you on TV "shows her how much you love her...." (not that any of them would hurt our feelings....but all there is to romance they are not....)
Find out what romance, and being romanced, is for each of you now - and get really good at incorporating all of it into your life as a natural part of it. Oh, what fun!
What to Do When Life Changes - Without You....
The kids are gone - one of both of you have retired from your job - time marches on and now you two are spending more uninterrupted time together than you have since you were....well, for a very long time!
And, it's not working very well....
That's because your lives have changed and so must your relationship with each other. Your communications are no longer around work and kids - so what are they about? Your focus is now more self-connected, not other connected - so how do you become more separate without growing apart?
These and other considerations that underlie your new life together will be asked and answered, so the two of you can happily & smoothly transition into this new adventure - together!
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To get you started, complete this brief but very useful assessment questionnaire.
It will help you focus your thinking on what your relationship improvement goals are, and what you need to know about yourself and others in order to get those goals met.
So, get yourself a glass of great wine, take your time, and answer these questions as fully and honestly as you can.
Enjoy the journey!
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To learn more about how Coaching can help you both be happier together, and to schedule your complimentary 30 minute assessment, complete the form at right and you will be contacted within 24 business hours. In the comment section, please indicate your preferred method and times of contact.
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